That’s if you are lucky, you may get help almost all the time. On few occasions, help won’t come your way and you will resort to all claims of rejection, wickedness by fellows and been forsaken by God.
Flip the coin! On the other side are many who rarely experience any help at all. Their circumstances remain self help and struggles without progress – or very little progress.
They miss “help” not because they do not work hard or continue to try each day after couple of failed moments. They miss “help” because they do not understand “help” as an opportunity they must create for others.
Inherently, humans remain selfish and ultimately, self interest drives “help” people offer.
So, to be helped, you need to create the opportunities others desire and need – value.
That way, they will support you to succeed so they leverage the opportunities you create.
Don’t expect help when you haven’t created value – either immediately or potentially.